Can anyone have tantric sex?
Anyone can have tantric sex with and without a partner. Within a relationship, respect, intimacy and love grows through Maithuna. As a woman (Shakti) you start to feel more intensely and as a man (Shiva) you get more patience and energy.
How long does it last?
Tantric love making is timeless. If there is a lot of time, you can make beautiful (transcendental) journeys to another dimension through practice. Even the 'weekly 11 minutes' become more intense with the skills of tantric lovemaking.
What is ecstatic flow?
In ecstatic flow, your consciousness becomes bigger than just yourself; you feel connected to something bigger than yourself. It involves a moment when you are outside of yourself. It helps to clear your head and connect with your body. You feel one with your partner, the music, the atmosphere, the universe... Your consciousness moves in a way that feels good and is good for you. A moment you experience together with your partner or alone.
What else do you learn?
Experimentation can be done together and alone. You experience the generation of Kundalini (sexual energy). As a woman you will learn to pulse, the pumpkin technique and become one with your Yoni (vagina). As a man, you learn techniques to delay orgasm. Combining your skills, you will become intuitive and then experience the climax of an ecstatic flow.
Relieve menstrual pain?
Tantric sex helps relieve menstrual pain which is also explained in course.
Tantric sex or tantric love making what is that?
If your partner has no or insufficient erection, or even no Lingam (penis), it is possible to experience the Maithuna. The circulation of energy is triggered by the intention, asanas and pompoir technique, apart from penetration.
ADHD? In the course Martin explains how the 'hyper-energy' can flow for even more intensity.
Tantric sex and massage are both forms of expression to reduce irritation, frustration, aggression and depression. Tantric massage can be learned during the private course consisting of 10 lessons. You can learn more about tantric living in the tantra course.
No more "11-minute sex"?
Tantric love making is different love making. The difference with animals is that humans have consciousness. Making love differently from love and consciousness. It is not that tantra rejects our 'primal urges'. With tantra you realize that there is more than desire and lust. Conscious love making gives your sex life a deeper dimension. After a while, 'flat sex' becomes unfulfilling. Loving and conscious sex according to the tantric insights is an enrichment of your life.
Tantric sex is a joint effort, a loving 'game'. The goal is not to come, the goal is to enjoy each other's body, the touch, the energy and to enjoy lust and love. It is not a "workout. It's not about ejaculation and cumming as much as possible, it's not about performance. It's not about the 'doing', it's about the 'being'.
Scientifically, you do sex alone and many people stay in their heads. Tantric sex is a fusion of two energies and, with the right partner, souls. It's about the touch, the movements, the eye contact where the kundalini starts flowing through the bodies. It makes you more alive and energetic. Each experience is unique, it is different every time and the more you make tantric love together the more intense it becomes.
After years of "flat sex" with all kinds of toys, maybe even narcotics, you come to the point where you ask yourself, "Is this it? The answer is: Tantric love making;)
Does it have anything to do with yoga?
There is a close connection to yoga, even though Tantra can be placed in a separate category.
Three adjectives to define traditional sex: Hasty, genital-centric and superficial. Tantric sex we can refer to with: complex, deep and attentive.
Can only one of the two partners be tantric?
Of course it can, and this can greatly help the partner who allows themselves to be led to trust themselves and let go to discover new sensations and better self-awareness. Within tantric sex, the body shows itself all kinds of new sides and gives new sensations.
Is tantric sex mostly natural or does it include external aids such as sex toys?
Mostly it is natural because it is based on the principle that we already have within ourselves the necessary "tools" to explore, search, transcend and expand the baggage of sexual knowledge. Total harmony between body and mind is an inexhaustible source of eroticism. Of course, this does not mean that sex toys are forbidden, only that they can be a complementary, but not essential, game.
Does Tantra help couples have a longer relationship?
Helps couples get to know each other without secrets, improve spontaneity and give to each other without reservations, pretexts, taboos or censorship. In fact, it helps to exploit sexual arousal in a conscious way to increase vital energy and dominate emotions, as well as to find perfect harmony with the partner. The result is an extraordinary improvement of intimacy and complicity, fundamental ingredients to ensure a longer duration of a relationship.